Tuesday, February 14, 2012

I'm not normal...and that's okay.

I'm not normal.  I am not sure I have ever been normal.  What even defines normal?

I do know this, my relationship is not normal.  I've become more confident lately in my relationship.  I will without hesitation say, "My wife and our husband" to someone.  It is interesting to see some people's response.  I *love* it when there isn't a response.  You see, as non normal as we may seem, we are actually pretty normal.

We have jobs and hobbies, we cook and clean, we go grocery shopping and to doctor's appointments.  We love each other, we have a bond with each other far beyond a sexual bond.  We have issues like everyone else and work on those too.

This is the polyamorous voice I want to give.  I am happy and respect the Brown's and the Darger's.  However it is not my faith that lead me to my plural marriage.  It is love.