As anyone knows who has been reading my blog, I'm pretty new to Arizona. I also work from home and while I love working from home it doesn't give me much of a chance to meet new people. So the question arises...how do you meet new people? We aren't the bar kind of peeps. R. and I both love live music but sadly I sort of take issue with large crowds. Well it's not so much the crowds as feeling trapped. Anyway, in any case it strikes off the bar scene, plus I would really prefer to meet like minded people.
So I have been exploring ways to meet new people. I joined the meetup.com poly group for my area, I joined a local poly group, I even have an OKCupid profile which clearly states that I am married and only looking for friends. Yes, by the way, my partners know about it.
I have seen some discussions of these groups and neither leave me with a feeling of "oh, I want to be a part of that!" So now what? I have the feeling that neither of these two groups really contain people with the same mindset as us. We are practicing poly fidelity not just polyamorous. Most of what I have seen is just married people looking for a casual partner.
The question becomes, do we go? Do we go to a meetup trying to find people like us? Or do we just pass it up? What would you do?
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